Of Final Year Project and Marriage Life!!!~

Assalamualaikum w.b.t.

To My Muslim  Brothers and Sisters

Good Day

To My Non-Muslim Brothers and Sisters

Well well well it has been quite sometimes since I last wrote anything here (in this blog I mean)...

Life is sooo hectic as a final year degree student and also as a wife to a beloved husband...Even it is a polygamy type of marriage yet I am still act like a normal wife...wife is still a wife towards a husband doesn't matter you are first, second, third or the fourth wife yeah

Final Year Project:

This is the most important chapter in a degree student life...You need to write a thesis any topic which you deeply understand while doing a practical training in any company that you wish and got approved by the university for 21 weeks...owh that is quite challenging you know...well I am experiencing it now...that's why I can make that statement heheh....

Without strong support from my beloved husband, Phyruzal Mohd Rajali...I might not be able to stand still in this condition...Yeap his presence is like a chipsmore by my side but his attention towards me is sooooo undivided...he gave me full attention...well in marriage who did not slip their tongue when they communicate? we are human being learn to be perfect for each other as much as we can

The topic of my final year project? It should stay as a secret...But it is not as powerful as what I have in my thought before...but I believe Allah knows the best for us...I hope I will finish writing up my Final Year Project excellently and also become one of first class degree holders in year 2015 during my graduation day...not for any intention to boast to other instead to make myself proud and make my husband feel happy so do my beloved mama...they are waiting for that day to happen...:)

Polygamy (My marriage):

It is sweet though...Yes full of hardship but yet still too sweet for me...coz my husband is such a sweet guy...he has too much patience to stay in this path...I have to admit the first wife still cannot accept the fact that I exist by hubby's side at present...I am no one to cure her heart...I never dreamt of being a second wife either...but who knows? yes people will mock me and say bad things to me...But trust me...I never ask for this...But who am I to say NO to His fate???

Polygamy should strengthen the bond between ummah of Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h instead of creating more enemies in life...It is not the polygamy that is wrong...If you say it is wrong then it is a big sin since Allah S.W.T Himself allows polygamy...The one that is wrong is the people whose involve in this type of marriage...

It is not only the husband carries the role to harmonise this type of marriage but the wives also carry those roles...if the wives quarrel with each other, how on earth the husband will stay calm? hence, for those who is in the same situation as me...please please and please give full support to your husband...learn to accept the fact his love does not belong to you alone...If you are sooo greedy to have your husband only just for yourself, why you never ask to have Allah just for yourself??? Coz you have the answer for that I am sure...nothing in this world belong to us...not even a husband...

The media nowadays bring bad image related to polygamy and also goes to newspapers which only publish bad effects of this type of marriage...open your eyes people...see it yourself...if someone said your hubby is a sex maniac??? so what??? at least he get it through a halal way...women, you are not in my shoes and im not in your shoes either...so we shouldn't judge each other...

If the world know me, I would say "my marriage is never wrong" until the last breath of mine...and I am happy with this marriage...as I always said and I accept any tests and hardships which will happen now and then...In Shaa Allah coz the heaven is too sweet to be given to us without any tests from Allah...

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters...

Wassalam

Reality of LIFE~

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh wamaghfiratuh waridhwanuh to my Muslim brothers and sisters and A Very Good Day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters...

All almost 23 years of my life, there had been series of turning points arranged by Allah to make my life become better and much much better,,,I always believe His plannings have wisdom behind it...

Being offered to study in Scotland but a not flying colours result wouldnt allow me to be there...The result is just an asbab or a reason instead Allah already planned for me not to step my foot in the land of Scotland...In Shaa Allah I will be there for a tour :)

I was sick for 6 years and that was another turning point in my life...I gave up on myself and I even said I want to sell fried bananas for life to survive...loollzzz...However, Allah gave my mama a heart full of strength to be my companion and supportive in my academic life and here am I now...

All those incidents above looked like a big test for me which comes from Him,,,I thought it would end at that point and I was wrong...The biggest test I experience is now...my marriage...being a second wife...which I never feel so,,,anyone can say that I am a home wrecker, I used black magic to get my husband from other woman, yeah yeah I am the sorcerer and I am the evil here...To be honest, I accepted this incident as His will...

My husband treated me like I am a princess...Who says being a second wife cannot get a piggy back ride when I wanted to step down from a boat??? Yes, it is hard for all women outside there to understand why I choose this position...dear my brothers and sisters, I didnt choose but Allah moved my heart to accept and redha...To say the word redha, everyone can say it but it's very hard to be put in action...since i got married my friends said I look cheerful, happy go lucky and always full of spirit...hahaha...who said second wife always feel sombre, sad and need sympathy? lolzzz...anyway...This is Me and I am proud to be chosen by Allah to be in this path

People may judge me but if they would be in my place one day, they would never say anything...each and every of us has different story in life...And I like this reality of my life and I will say my marriage is not a wrongful and sinful towards anyone...Allah has planned this for me and as His follower I am obliged to this plan and who am I by His side to deny this powerful reality of my life

The man does not belong to any of us instead he belongs to Allah and we only being lent with his presence to get his redha to reach the immortal Heaven,,, (^_^)

Alhamdulillah Ya Allah

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters...

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Patience

"EASY TO SAY BUT IT IS THE HARDEST THING TO BE PUT IN ACTION"

Jazakallahu khairan kathira

Have A Nice Day Ahead

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H.O.P.E Is What We Called IT

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh wamaghfiratuh waridhwanuh to my dearest Muslim brothers and sisters,

Good day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters...

What Am I going to share today? H.O.P.E

As a human being everyday we hope to get this and that and we hope to do this and that...We are decision makers of the day because we are the one who choose to eat, to go to work or not or other things that we do everyday...HOPE is a 4 letter word easy to say easy to spell but hard to be a reality...

I am sooo curious to know what is HOPE in life and yet what I found was just sooo mesmerizing...HOPE should come with a so called other action called "Practice" or "Amal"...

A quote from Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h.:

"Knowledge can only be gained through learning. The softness can only be gained when you put the effort to become soft. Those who are searching for kindness, it will be rewarded to him. those who preserve himself from badness, he will be preserved for it" (translated from Syarah Al-Hikam Jilid 2 page 27"

People, my dear brothers and sisters,

If we want A grade, put effort to get it...

If we want Allah, put the effort to get close to him...

dont just keep hoping on this and that but no effort...and do not hope things that are not meant for you unless you hope for something that you believe from Allah it comes and to Allah it will return...and once you hope and put the effort to get it and at last you dont get it? what should you do? increase your effort...ask from Allah and none other than HIM

That's it...the simplest formula of H.O.P.E

To my Muslim brothers and sisters, Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira...

To my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters, Have A Nice Day Ahead

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With Love as a humbled slave of Allah...In Shaa Allah

HECTICNESS

Assalamualaikum w.b.t to my Muslim brothers and sisters and good day to my Non Muslim brothers and sisters...

Alhamdulillah be thankful to Allah for the life that we still have today :)

Hecticness is not the reason for you to run away from what life tasks which you need to accomplish...Allah The Almighty hates procrastination and believe in Allah no matter how hectic you are in life, if you avoid procrastination, there will be no word "hectic" in your dictionary of life

Live life to the fullest for the kindness in the world and the world hereafter

In Shaa Allah we pray for that

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my non Muslim brothers and sisters

(^_^)

What Life Offers You?

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh wamaghfiratuh waridhwanuh to my Muslim brothers and sisters...AND
A very good day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters,

It is such a pleasant morning here in Malaysia...Alhamdulillah (Thanks to Allah) for giving me chance to stay alive in this world....

Throughout my almost 23 years journey in life, I have discovered many things and this journey of life is the arrangement of Allah for us...Believe or not His arrangement is always beautiful and makes you feel peaceful and calm inside your heart...

To anyone of us do we ever think WHAT LIFE OFFERS TO US? I do not want to touch much on other stuff instead I want to share what my life offers to me? yeap too many things life had offered to me and I am very grateful with that

My life offers me GREAT, KIND HEARTED and WONDERFUL people and they always surround me...we meet and we separate for a while and here I want to share a verse from Holy Quran as quoted:

"The believers are but brothers, so make settlement between your brothers. And fear Allah that you may receive mercy"

Surah Al-Hujurat verse 10 (42:10)

We, as a human being we should accept and never stop accepting what life offers to us as long as it is what human should do and not what animal should do, not what plant should do and not non living things should do...

Dear my brothers and sisters,

ACCEPT AND SEE THE MIRACLE OF LIFE...BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU GOT AND NEVER STOP SEARCHING FOR THE OFFERS...and the best offer you can get is Islam because it is Ad-Deen (the way of life) and it covers each and every part of our life

In Shaa Allah...May Allah bless us...in duniya and hereafter....Amin

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters

(^_^)

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I Love You So

I pray to God

My heart, soul, and body

Every single day of my life

With every breath I solemnly promise

To try to live my life for you

O Allah, You did revive my soul

And shone Your light into my heart

So pleasing You is now my only goal

Oh I love You so

I love You so (I love You so)

[Chorus:]

Now I know how it’s like

To have a precious love in my life

Now I know how it feels

To finally be at peace inside

I wish that everybody knew

How amazing it feels to love You

I wish that everyone could see

How Your love has set me free

Set me free and made me strong

O Allah, I’m forever grateful to You

Whatever I say could never be enough

You gave me strength to overcome my uncertainties

And stand firm against all the odds

You are the one who did revive my soul

You shone Your light into my heart

So pleasing You is now my only goal

Oh I love You so

I love You so (I love You so)

[Chorus]

My love, my life, my days, my nights, my wealth, my prayers – all for You [x2]

And I swear that I will never put anyone or anything before You

My love, my life, my days, my nights, my wealth, my prayers – all for You

[Chorus]

 

Dear Muslim Brothers and Sisters,

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira

Dear Non-Muslim Brothers and Sisters,

Have A Good Day Ahead

Wallahualam Bissawab

:)

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