You Said White, I Said Black, You Said Awesome, I Said Not Awesome!!!

Assalamualaikum wbt to my Muslim brothers and sisters,

A Very Good Day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters,

In Marriage:

Misunderstanding always occur...It is the TRUTH...sometimes it is even worst when we try to make up the misunderstanding...

Wrongly interpreted any message being sent to you is another worst situation especially in a marriage...it is not easy to face this unless you stay silent as long as you want until you are in a stable condition

No one would want to end up like this right???

ANGER will result from those two situations as I stated above...Owh GOSH sometimes I even feel I'm being tortured~ Owh NO I hate that feeling yeah

Even in giving opinion, sometimes marriage couples often have different opinion from each other and each of us try to win...the best solution is a win win situation...For example:

Woman : I want to eat at NOODLE!!!

Man : Ok, Let's Go

Woman : This is my favourite food

Man : This is so not my taste, and the soup you eat taste like woody and soup full of herbs

Woman : I will never bring you here anymore since you dont like it

Man : I can come but not with this type of dry noodle which I ordered

Woman : The soup taste the same too...even you order the noodle soup, you will never like it...next time you dont have to accompany me to eat here yeah

Lesson here: Woman tries her best to keep her man away from things that he doesnt like and yet the man tries his best to pretend he will like something else being served at that restaurant without even realising his woman understands that he doesnt like that type of food to be eaten by him...huh sigh sigh sigh

One more important thing is LEARN TO EXPRESS AND AVOID KEEPING ALL FEELINGS JUST TO YOURSELF FOR THE REASON YOU DONT WANT TO HURT YOUR COUPLE...IN FACT, THE MORE YOU HIDE THE MORE YOU HURT YOUR COUPLE

the lesson which we need to learn here is marriage is a process to learn knowing each other...even until the last breath of yours you will never know your couple very well and the only one who knows him or her well is Allah The Almighty

That's all from me for tonight's post hehehe :) stay calm and happy as ever

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters

What about that song?

Assalamualaikum wbt to my Muslim brothers and sisters

A very good day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters

Wow...it is a very heavy rainy day tonight...Well well well due to my inability to control my emotion because of the appointment this evening related to my final year project (the last step before I get my degree)...I CHOOSE to write a post here...and yet the post is closely related to the previous post

It is the story of how I found my one who is now my husband...I CHOOSE YOU is a song which suits our story...yes I choose him...I did choose him to be my life partner...How it begin?

There was a time last year definitely in November...1 year has passed where I thought I dont want to fall in love anymore...I am tired of falling in love anymore...and I cant stop myself from thinking I need someone in my life to be a companion someone who is willing to be with me and accept me the way I am...

And yes as what we can see in the lyric in the song where YOU COULD NOT COME TRUE, JUST LOVE'S ILLUSION...those are the words which came out from other people...however, I finally got through it and he is now my husband...not a love illusion...we didnt fall in love...how to explain? we just became friend and he said he want me to be his wife...I didnt accept that as simple as how we spell ABC...however, his title as someone's husband was not something that revolved in my mind at that time...I asked from Allah to show me the way and gave me hardships to continue with the marriage...

I am not perfect, I even did a lot of mistakes in the past...Mistakes which will hunt me until the end of my life...However, I am doing my best to prove my love to my husband once I became his wife...and the first day we met is the first day of my life being a wife to someone...

In contrary, I am under prepared when I became his wife...however, we finally got it alright coz I CHOOSE YOU...I love my husband with all my heart...and this is the memory which I will never erase and it will stay here as long as these words give life to thee

I am willing to leave everything for him...The best moment in my life since I became wife is the moment to stay by my husband's side in whatever circumstances...

If one day he asks to get married to another woman in life, all I need to do is never stop loving him and give more and more to Allah as I am His servant in this world and the world hereafter...

IRONICALLY:

Dear husband:
My whole heart, Will be yours forever, This is a beautiful start, To a lifelong love letter

LOVE SOMEONE LILLAHI TAALA (BECAUSE OF ALLAH) for Muslim brothers and sisters

LOVE SOMEONE BECAUSE OF GOD for Non-Muslim brothers and sisters

That's all for now,,,

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters

A Song Which Tells My Love Story completely,,,

 "I Choose You" by SARA BAREILLES

Let the bough break, let it come down crashing

Let the sun fade out to a dark sky

I can't say I'd even notice it was absent

Cause I could live by the light in your eyes

I'll unfold before you

What I've strung together

The very first words

Of a lifelong love letter

Tell the world that we finally got it all right

I choose you

I will become yours and you will become mine

I choose you

I choose you

(Yeah)

There was a time when I would have believed them

If they told me you could not come true

Just love's illusion

But then you found me and everything changed

And I believe in something again

My whole heart

Will be yours forever

This is a beautiful start

To a lifelong love letter

Tell the world that we finally got it all right

I choose you

I will become yours and you will become mine

I choose you

I choose you

We are not perfect

We'll learn from our mistakes

And as long as it takes

I will prove my love to you

I am not scared of the elements

I am under-prepared, but I am willing

And even better

I get to be the other half of you

Tell the world that we finally got it all right

I choose you

Yeah

I will become yours and you will become mine

I choose you

I choose you

I choose you

Next post will tell the detail of it...

Of Final Year Project and Marriage Life!!!~

Assalamualaikum w.b.t.

To My Muslim  Brothers and Sisters

Good Day

To My Non-Muslim Brothers and Sisters

Well well well it has been quite sometimes since I last wrote anything here (in this blog I mean)...

Life is sooo hectic as a final year degree student and also as a wife to a beloved husband...Even it is a polygamy type of marriage yet I am still act like a normal wife...wife is still a wife towards a husband doesn't matter you are first, second, third or the fourth wife yeah

Final Year Project:

This is the most important chapter in a degree student life...You need to write a thesis any topic which you deeply understand while doing a practical training in any company that you wish and got approved by the university for 21 weeks...owh that is quite challenging you know...well I am experiencing it now...that's why I can make that statement heheh....

Without strong support from my beloved husband, Phyruzal Mohd Rajali...I might not be able to stand still in this condition...Yeap his presence is like a chipsmore by my side but his attention towards me is sooooo undivided...he gave me full attention...well in marriage who did not slip their tongue when they communicate? we are human being learn to be perfect for each other as much as we can

The topic of my final year project? It should stay as a secret...But it is not as powerful as what I have in my thought before...but I believe Allah knows the best for us...I hope I will finish writing up my Final Year Project excellently and also become one of first class degree holders in year 2015 during my graduation day...not for any intention to boast to other instead to make myself proud and make my husband feel happy so do my beloved mama...they are waiting for that day to happen...:)

Polygamy (My marriage):

It is sweet though...Yes full of hardship but yet still too sweet for me...coz my husband is such a sweet guy...he has too much patience to stay in this path...I have to admit the first wife still cannot accept the fact that I exist by hubby's side at present...I am no one to cure her heart...I never dreamt of being a second wife either...but who knows? yes people will mock me and say bad things to me...But trust me...I never ask for this...But who am I to say NO to His fate???

Polygamy should strengthen the bond between ummah of Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h instead of creating more enemies in life...It is not the polygamy that is wrong...If you say it is wrong then it is a big sin since Allah S.W.T Himself allows polygamy...The one that is wrong is the people whose involve in this type of marriage...

It is not only the husband carries the role to harmonise this type of marriage but the wives also carry those roles...if the wives quarrel with each other, how on earth the husband will stay calm? hence, for those who is in the same situation as me...please please and please give full support to your husband...learn to accept the fact his love does not belong to you alone...If you are sooo greedy to have your husband only just for yourself, why you never ask to have Allah just for yourself??? Coz you have the answer for that I am sure...nothing in this world belong to us...not even a husband...

The media nowadays bring bad image related to polygamy and also goes to newspapers which only publish bad effects of this type of marriage...open your eyes people...see it yourself...if someone said your hubby is a sex maniac??? so what??? at least he get it through a halal way...women, you are not in my shoes and im not in your shoes either...so we shouldn't judge each other...

If the world know me, I would say "my marriage is never wrong" until the last breath of mine...and I am happy with this marriage...as I always said and I accept any tests and hardships which will happen now and then...In Shaa Allah coz the heaven is too sweet to be given to us without any tests from Allah...

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters...

Wassalam

Reality of LIFE~

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh wamaghfiratuh waridhwanuh to my Muslim brothers and sisters and A Very Good Day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters...

All almost 23 years of my life, there had been series of turning points arranged by Allah to make my life become better and much much better,,,I always believe His plannings have wisdom behind it...

Being offered to study in Scotland but a not flying colours result wouldnt allow me to be there...The result is just an asbab or a reason instead Allah already planned for me not to step my foot in the land of Scotland...In Shaa Allah I will be there for a tour :)

I was sick for 6 years and that was another turning point in my life...I gave up on myself and I even said I want to sell fried bananas for life to survive...loollzzz...However, Allah gave my mama a heart full of strength to be my companion and supportive in my academic life and here am I now...

All those incidents above looked like a big test for me which comes from Him,,,I thought it would end at that point and I was wrong...The biggest test I experience is now...my marriage...being a second wife...which I never feel so,,,anyone can say that I am a home wrecker, I used black magic to get my husband from other woman, yeah yeah I am the sorcerer and I am the evil here...To be honest, I accepted this incident as His will...

My husband treated me like I am a princess...Who says being a second wife cannot get a piggy back ride when I wanted to step down from a boat??? Yes, it is hard for all women outside there to understand why I choose this position...dear my brothers and sisters, I didnt choose but Allah moved my heart to accept and redha...To say the word redha, everyone can say it but it's very hard to be put in action...since i got married my friends said I look cheerful, happy go lucky and always full of spirit...hahaha...who said second wife always feel sombre, sad and need sympathy? lolzzz...anyway...This is Me and I am proud to be chosen by Allah to be in this path

People may judge me but if they would be in my place one day, they would never say anything...each and every of us has different story in life...And I like this reality of my life and I will say my marriage is not a wrongful and sinful towards anyone...Allah has planned this for me and as His follower I am obliged to this plan and who am I by His side to deny this powerful reality of my life

The man does not belong to any of us instead he belongs to Allah and we only being lent with his presence to get his redha to reach the immortal Heaven,,, (^_^)

Alhamdulillah Ya Allah

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters...

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Patience

"EASY TO SAY BUT IT IS THE HARDEST THING TO BE PUT IN ACTION"

Jazakallahu khairan kathira

Have A Nice Day Ahead

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H.O.P.E Is What We Called IT

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh wamaghfiratuh waridhwanuh to my dearest Muslim brothers and sisters,

Good day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters...

What Am I going to share today? H.O.P.E

As a human being everyday we hope to get this and that and we hope to do this and that...We are decision makers of the day because we are the one who choose to eat, to go to work or not or other things that we do everyday...HOPE is a 4 letter word easy to say easy to spell but hard to be a reality...

I am sooo curious to know what is HOPE in life and yet what I found was just sooo mesmerizing...HOPE should come with a so called other action called "Practice" or "Amal"...

A quote from Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h.:

"Knowledge can only be gained through learning. The softness can only be gained when you put the effort to become soft. Those who are searching for kindness, it will be rewarded to him. those who preserve himself from badness, he will be preserved for it" (translated from Syarah Al-Hikam Jilid 2 page 27"

People, my dear brothers and sisters,

If we want A grade, put effort to get it...

If we want Allah, put the effort to get close to him...

dont just keep hoping on this and that but no effort...and do not hope things that are not meant for you unless you hope for something that you believe from Allah it comes and to Allah it will return...and once you hope and put the effort to get it and at last you dont get it? what should you do? increase your effort...ask from Allah and none other than HIM

That's it...the simplest formula of H.O.P.E

To my Muslim brothers and sisters, Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira...

To my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters, Have A Nice Day Ahead

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With Love as a humbled slave of Allah...In Shaa Allah