Assalamualaikum wbt to my Muslim brothers and sisters,
A Very Good Day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters,
In Marriage:
Misunderstanding always occur...It is the TRUTH...sometimes it is even worst when we try to make up the misunderstanding...
Wrongly interpreted any message being sent to you is another worst situation especially in a marriage...it is not easy to face this unless you stay silent as long as you want until you are in a stable condition
ANGER will result from those two situations as I stated above...Owh GOSH sometimes I even feel I'm being tortured~ Owh NO I hate that feeling yeah
Even in giving opinion, sometimes marriage couples often have different opinion from each other and each of us try to win...the best solution is a win win situation...For example:
Woman : I want to eat at NOODLE!!!
Man : Ok, Let's Go
Woman : This is my favourite food
Man : This is so not my taste, and the soup you eat taste like woody and soup full of herbs
Woman : I will never bring you here anymore since you dont like it
Man : I can come but not with this type of dry noodle which I ordered
Woman : The soup taste the same too...even you order the noodle soup, you will never like it...next time you dont have to accompany me to eat here yeah
Lesson here: Woman tries her best to keep her man away from things that he doesnt like and yet the man tries his best to pretend he will like something else being served at that restaurant without even realising his woman understands that he doesnt like that type of food to be eaten by him...huh sigh sigh sigh
One more important thing is LEARN TO EXPRESS AND AVOID KEEPING ALL FEELINGS JUST TO YOURSELF FOR THE REASON YOU DONT WANT TO HURT YOUR COUPLE...IN FACT, THE MORE YOU HIDE THE MORE YOU HURT YOUR COUPLE
the lesson which we need to learn here is marriage is a process to learn knowing each other...even until the last breath of yours you will never know your couple very well and the only one who knows him or her well is Allah The Almighty
That's all from me for tonight's post hehehe :) stay calm and happy as ever
Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters
Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters
A Very Good Day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters,
In Marriage:
Misunderstanding always occur...It is the TRUTH...sometimes it is even worst when we try to make up the misunderstanding...
Wrongly interpreted any message being sent to you is another worst situation especially in a marriage...it is not easy to face this unless you stay silent as long as you want until you are in a stable condition
No one would want to end up like this right???
Even in giving opinion, sometimes marriage couples often have different opinion from each other and each of us try to win...the best solution is a win win situation...For example:
Woman : I want to eat at NOODLE!!!
Man : Ok, Let's Go
Woman : This is my favourite food
Man : This is so not my taste, and the soup you eat taste like woody and soup full of herbs
Woman : I will never bring you here anymore since you dont like it
Man : I can come but not with this type of dry noodle which I ordered
Woman : The soup taste the same too...even you order the noodle soup, you will never like it...next time you dont have to accompany me to eat here yeah
Lesson here: Woman tries her best to keep her man away from things that he doesnt like and yet the man tries his best to pretend he will like something else being served at that restaurant without even realising his woman understands that he doesnt like that type of food to be eaten by him...huh sigh sigh sigh
One more important thing is LEARN TO EXPRESS AND AVOID KEEPING ALL FEELINGS JUST TO YOURSELF FOR THE REASON YOU DONT WANT TO HURT YOUR COUPLE...IN FACT, THE MORE YOU HIDE THE MORE YOU HURT YOUR COUPLE
the lesson which we need to learn here is marriage is a process to learn knowing each other...even until the last breath of yours you will never know your couple very well and the only one who knows him or her well is Allah The Almighty
That's all from me for tonight's post hehehe :) stay calm and happy as ever
Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters
Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters