Assalamualaikum w.b.t.
To My Muslim Brothers and Sisters
Good Day
To My Non-Muslim Brothers and Sisters
Well well well it has been quite sometimes since I last wrote anything here (in this blog I mean)...
Life is sooo hectic as a final year degree student and also as a wife to a beloved husband...Even it is a polygamy type of marriage yet I am still act like a normal wife...wife is still a wife towards a husband doesn't matter you are first, second, third or the fourth wife yeah
Final Year Project:
This is the most important chapter in a degree student life...You need to write a thesis any topic which you deeply understand while doing a practical training in any company that you wish and got approved by the university for 21 weeks...owh that is quite challenging you know...well I am experiencing it now...that's why I can make that statement heheh....
Without strong support from my beloved husband, Phyruzal Mohd Rajali...I might not be able to stand still in this condition...Yeap his presence is like a chipsmore by my side but his attention towards me is sooooo undivided...he gave me full attention...well in marriage who did not slip their tongue when they communicate? we are human being learn to be perfect for each other as much as we can
The topic of my final year project? It should stay as a secret...But it is not as powerful as what I have in my thought before...but I believe Allah knows the best for us...I hope I will finish writing up my Final Year Project excellently and also become one of first class degree holders in year 2015 during my graduation day...not for any intention to boast to other instead to make myself proud and make my husband feel happy so do my beloved mama...they are waiting for that day to happen...:)
Polygamy (My marriage):
It is sweet though...Yes full of hardship but yet still too sweet for me...coz my husband is such a sweet guy...he has too much patience to stay in this path...I have to admit the first wife still cannot accept the fact that I exist by hubby's side at present...I am no one to cure her heart...I never dreamt of being a second wife either...but who knows? yes people will mock me and say bad things to me...But trust me...I never ask for this...But who am I to say NO to His fate???
Polygamy should strengthen the bond between ummah of Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h instead of creating more enemies in life...It is not the polygamy that is wrong...If you say it is wrong then it is a big sin since Allah S.W.T Himself allows polygamy...The one that is wrong is the people whose involve in this type of marriage...
It is not only the husband carries the role to harmonise this type of marriage but the wives also carry those roles...if the wives quarrel with each other, how on earth the husband will stay calm? hence, for those who is in the same situation as me...please please and please give full support to your husband...learn to accept the fact his love does not belong to you alone...If you are sooo greedy to have your husband only just for yourself, why you never ask to have Allah just for yourself??? Coz you have the answer for that I am sure...nothing in this world belong to us...not even a husband...
The media nowadays bring bad image related to polygamy and also goes to newspapers which only publish bad effects of this type of marriage...open your eyes people...see it yourself...if someone said your hubby is a sex maniac??? so what??? at least he get it through a halal way...women, you are not in my shoes and im not in your shoes either...so we shouldn't judge each other...
If the world know me, I would say "my marriage is never wrong" until the last breath of mine...and I am happy with this marriage...as I always said and I accept any tests and hardships which will happen now and then...In Shaa Allah coz the heaven is too sweet to be given to us without any tests from Allah...
Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters
Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters...
Wassalam
