You Said White, I Said Black, You Said Awesome, I Said Not Awesome!!!

Assalamualaikum wbt to my Muslim brothers and sisters,

A Very Good Day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters,

In Marriage:

Misunderstanding always occur...It is the TRUTH...sometimes it is even worst when we try to make up the misunderstanding...

Wrongly interpreted any message being sent to you is another worst situation especially in a marriage...it is not easy to face this unless you stay silent as long as you want until you are in a stable condition

No one would want to end up like this right???

ANGER will result from those two situations as I stated above...Owh GOSH sometimes I even feel I'm being tortured~ Owh NO I hate that feeling yeah

Even in giving opinion, sometimes marriage couples often have different opinion from each other and each of us try to win...the best solution is a win win situation...For example:

Woman : I want to eat at NOODLE!!!

Man : Ok, Let's Go

Woman : This is my favourite food

Man : This is so not my taste, and the soup you eat taste like woody and soup full of herbs

Woman : I will never bring you here anymore since you dont like it

Man : I can come but not with this type of dry noodle which I ordered

Woman : The soup taste the same too...even you order the noodle soup, you will never like it...next time you dont have to accompany me to eat here yeah

Lesson here: Woman tries her best to keep her man away from things that he doesnt like and yet the man tries his best to pretend he will like something else being served at that restaurant without even realising his woman understands that he doesnt like that type of food to be eaten by him...huh sigh sigh sigh

One more important thing is LEARN TO EXPRESS AND AVOID KEEPING ALL FEELINGS JUST TO YOURSELF FOR THE REASON YOU DONT WANT TO HURT YOUR COUPLE...IN FACT, THE MORE YOU HIDE THE MORE YOU HURT YOUR COUPLE

the lesson which we need to learn here is marriage is a process to learn knowing each other...even until the last breath of yours you will never know your couple very well and the only one who knows him or her well is Allah The Almighty

That's all from me for tonight's post hehehe :) stay calm and happy as ever

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters

What about that song?

Assalamualaikum wbt to my Muslim brothers and sisters

A very good day to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters

Wow...it is a very heavy rainy day tonight...Well well well due to my inability to control my emotion because of the appointment this evening related to my final year project (the last step before I get my degree)...I CHOOSE to write a post here...and yet the post is closely related to the previous post

It is the story of how I found my one who is now my husband...I CHOOSE YOU is a song which suits our story...yes I choose him...I did choose him to be my life partner...How it begin?

There was a time last year definitely in November...1 year has passed where I thought I dont want to fall in love anymore...I am tired of falling in love anymore...and I cant stop myself from thinking I need someone in my life to be a companion someone who is willing to be with me and accept me the way I am...

And yes as what we can see in the lyric in the song where YOU COULD NOT COME TRUE, JUST LOVE'S ILLUSION...those are the words which came out from other people...however, I finally got through it and he is now my husband...not a love illusion...we didnt fall in love...how to explain? we just became friend and he said he want me to be his wife...I didnt accept that as simple as how we spell ABC...however, his title as someone's husband was not something that revolved in my mind at that time...I asked from Allah to show me the way and gave me hardships to continue with the marriage...

I am not perfect, I even did a lot of mistakes in the past...Mistakes which will hunt me until the end of my life...However, I am doing my best to prove my love to my husband once I became his wife...and the first day we met is the first day of my life being a wife to someone...

In contrary, I am under prepared when I became his wife...however, we finally got it alright coz I CHOOSE YOU...I love my husband with all my heart...and this is the memory which I will never erase and it will stay here as long as these words give life to thee

I am willing to leave everything for him...The best moment in my life since I became wife is the moment to stay by my husband's side in whatever circumstances...

If one day he asks to get married to another woman in life, all I need to do is never stop loving him and give more and more to Allah as I am His servant in this world and the world hereafter...

IRONICALLY:

Dear husband:
My whole heart, Will be yours forever, This is a beautiful start, To a lifelong love letter

LOVE SOMEONE LILLAHI TAALA (BECAUSE OF ALLAH) for Muslim brothers and sisters

LOVE SOMEONE BECAUSE OF GOD for Non-Muslim brothers and sisters

That's all for now,,,

Jazakallahu Khairan Kathira to my Muslim brothers and sisters

Have A Nice Day Ahead to my Non-Muslim brothers and sisters

A Song Which Tells My Love Story completely,,,

 "I Choose You" by SARA BAREILLES

Let the bough break, let it come down crashing

Let the sun fade out to a dark sky

I can't say I'd even notice it was absent

Cause I could live by the light in your eyes

I'll unfold before you

What I've strung together

The very first words

Of a lifelong love letter

Tell the world that we finally got it all right

I choose you

I will become yours and you will become mine

I choose you

I choose you

(Yeah)

There was a time when I would have believed them

If they told me you could not come true

Just love's illusion

But then you found me and everything changed

And I believe in something again

My whole heart

Will be yours forever

This is a beautiful start

To a lifelong love letter

Tell the world that we finally got it all right

I choose you

I will become yours and you will become mine

I choose you

I choose you

We are not perfect

We'll learn from our mistakes

And as long as it takes

I will prove my love to you

I am not scared of the elements

I am under-prepared, but I am willing

And even better

I get to be the other half of you

Tell the world that we finally got it all right

I choose you

Yeah

I will become yours and you will become mine

I choose you

I choose you

I choose you

Next post will tell the detail of it...